Asking Permission To Help, Helping America Towards Humility

THE YOUNG AMERICAN WOMAN who lost her life in the state of "ISIS" probably never seriously asked herself, or anyone else, whether going to the middle east to help Syrian refugess was a good idea. The danger was always obvious, and going was always worth the risk, considering the nobility of purpose. But did she ever ask whether her help was wantd, needed, or would really help? Strangely enough, those in need of help don't always want it, and when they do, they often want it given in certain ways from certain people. People in need of help often want to be in control of their own situation, and of the help they receive. People in need of help are often suspicious of the hidden motives of the helpers. We Americans, in our high minded idealism and sense of empowerment, often behave as if what we have to offer the world is so very important and good, so obviously correct, that it must be offered (and accepted), at any cost. We don't often seem to ask ourselves whether this is true, or whether it is sheer egotistical arrogance. Back in the day, dying native Americans sometimes refused help from whites just because they were whites, as they called them. Oh well! Their loss! When an American goes to the middle east to offer help, said American is coming from the very same country which created much of the need for help in the first place. From the very country which dropped many if not most of the bombs. From a country deeply resented by the helpees. Our brilliant American conservatives are fond of saying that Islamic terrorists terrorize America only because they are jealous of America's freedom and prosperity. Like, I am so totally sure. If a terrosist from the middle east attacks America, then claims he did it because he is mad at America for sending its army halfway around the world, attacking and conquering Islamic countries, then occupying them for decades, I reckon I'll take his word for it. Looking for someone to help? Just a word of advice; before going, ask permmission from the intended recipient. Nnd above all: America, humble thyself!